Fighting is out. Listening is in. 

Connection is yours.

Darling, I get it

You’re smart. Successful.

You've created a beautiful life for yourself.

You have so much to feel proud of.

…But something is missing.

You think about your relationship with your mother/daughter and your heart sinks.

Or you see her name on your caller ID and feel a sense of dread.

Or you're with a friend who is happily chatting away about her latest mother-daughter trip and you think, "I could never do that".

 

The way mothers and daughters relate to each other determines whether they have a close, loving bond. 

And if they don't, it shows up at every family gathering, milestone, holiday and it sucks.

 

The good news is it doesn't have to be this way, 

because you've found your way here and I'm going to

solve this for you.

I help women like you stop brushing their problems under the rug and start sharing their feelings because they deserve to be heard.

How you feel in your most important relationship has a huge impact on every area of your life.

 

It’s 100% possible to have a loving mother-daughter bond (yes, even if waters have been rough in the past).

I can help you solve your conflict so you can have the most divine relationship you ever dreamed of.

Imagine what it would feel like to...

  • Heal your past pain as  you reunite in your mother-daughter relationship on equal terms.

  • Say the words “I can tell my Mom/Daughter anything” — and really mean it. 

  • Have THIS be the year people tell you, “Your connection is so wonderful! I wish I had that with my daughter/mother".

  • Feel the comfort of spending time together doing nothing other than being yourselves (and not having it erupt into a ANOTHER fight).

  • Revel in the freedom of closeness with any past issues of control, judgement and criticism cast out.

  • No longer feeling pressure to please or placate because your new communication styles fully support your healthy dynamic of two individuals who love and appreciate each other.  

Now it's time to work with someone who will help 

change your relationship forever.

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Hi! I’m Hilary,

a Mother-Daughter Dynamics Coach and

Specialized Relationship Counselor

I guide mothers and daughters through a seven step journey on how to navigate the process of healing their pain by cultivating a relationship built on love and mutual respect.

Why am I for you?

  • Your mother-daughter relationship is strained, estranged, tense, fraught or dissatisfying.

 

  • You’ve tried therapy. But it didn't get anywhere. It was more of the same complaining and hurt feelings except now you were paying to have this fight.

  • Because you have relationship envy when you see the types of relationships other women get to experience, “I’d love to talk to my mom/daughter like that".

  • Maybe you don’t fight every day, but you know how you feel when your relationship is on point — and dammit, you want to feel that way every day.

I hear the themes and patterns in your relationship and walk you through the solutions you need to move past it all. Time to drop the drama, Mama, because we're giving you the divine relationship you deserve, once and for all.

From extensive clinical experience, I’ll have you connecting, sharing, listening and being listened to in no time!

 

So whether you have distance in your relationship or feel like your every move is under a microscope, you never have that hopeless feeling again. I am by your side for the next four months guiding, teaching and caring for your relationship like you've never experienced before.

 

Solve your conflict, confusion and pain so you can enjoy every area of your life, feeling more supported than ever before in a loving mother-daughter dynamic.

 
How you can work with me
Get your circle of support in place as you navigate the challenges with your daughter this school year with us RIGHT by your side. Mothers with daughters ages 10-25 are invited to join the powerfully supportive Mother's Power Circle. The time is now to have a community of women in your corner. We'll lift you up and help you stop pushing your needs to the back burner. Your community to lean on whenever something comes up. It's time for you to embrace your healthy entitlement, mothering power and place in this world, Mama!
The perfect way to being your mother-daughter healing journey. Book your spot for a half-day, full day or weekend retreat. This immersive VIP experience invites you to relax, let your guard down and open up to finally understanding your relationship and healing your heart. This bespoke retreat can take place over Zoom or in a beautiful private location, but either way you have me right by your side. I will get to know your relationship and plan all of the details for you. Gift yourself an experience that will last a lifetime.

You are invited to the most powerful, intuitive and loving journey to rewrite your mother-daughter relationship story. Allow yourself to be powerfully supported in this 100 day journey of growth and transformation. No matter the circumstances, there is ALWAYS hope for mothers and daughters to heal their relationship together. I know this because I do DIVINE and TRANSFORMATIONAL work with mothers and daughters every dang day. Are you ready to rewrite your story?

"As soon as I met Hilary, her passion for helping mothers and daughters heal their relationship and strengthen their bond was immediately evident. The more I got to know Hilary, the more impressed I became with her depth of understanding and professionalism. I am honored that Hilary trained to become a Certified Mother-Daughter Coach and a Women’s Power Circles Facilitator."

-ROSJKE HASSELDINE

AUTHOR OF 'THE MOTHER-DAUGHTER PUZZLE' and owner of mother daughter coaching international, LLC

Why Mothers and Daughters?
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I’m so happy to read my letter to myself from before we started and see that I’m there. Pretty much done a 360 and I’m thrilled about that, it’s a concrete measure of our progress."

- Lori

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