What happens to us as mothers and daughters is a reflection of how women are treated.
Which means our struggle with each other is often about something we didn't even know we were missing. And what I know for sure is that when we know better, we do better.
Maybe you didn't get what you needed from your mother and want to do it differently with your daughter.
Maybe you're a daughter feeling tired of not living up to the expectations of your mother.
Maybe you're feeling like you're failing this mothering thing (trust me, if you're reading this, you're not failing)
You're ready to feel heard and understood.
To have relationships that fulfill you.
You're ready to know exactly what you need and how to get your needs met.
It's time to solve what is holding you back from having a relationship you love.
Coaching support will help you:
Find solutions for your mother-daughter relationship conflict and emotional struggles.
Embrace your voice so that you can advocate for what you need in all of your relationships.
Understand the disconnect and causes of conflict in your mother-daughter relationship.
Take care of yourself first, minus the guilt.
Know how to communicate your needs so that you stop feeling like you're asking for too much.
Create a strong, emotionally connected relationship that serves you.
Hey there, I'm Hilary
Culture tells us the that the mother daughter relationship is supposed to be hard, riddled with conflict and disappointment. But I am here to tell you that this is simply not true, mothers and daughters are biologically wired for connection and the problem lies in us accepting this myth.
So right off the bat, give yourself permission to let go of any guilt or shame. One thing I know for sure is that we have fallen victim to the pressure that culture puts on us as women. Pressure to do it all and be it all, including and especially in our role as mothers.
My work as a counselor and coach over the past twelve years has shown me that mothers and daughters both crave and need a close relationship with each other. Even during the teen years we're told it's a time when our daughters will reject us, but the truth is our daughters need us more during these years,
For generations mothers and daughters have fought to be known by each other. It's time to get you back on track, darling.
ARE YOU READY TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE?
Maybe you have a situation on your hands that you're unsure how to handle. Mothering girls sure does throw us some curve balls! With this package I'm all yours for 60 minutes to offer my support and fifteen years of experience in one call. Get all of your questions answered and leave with the confidence you need to return to your daughter feeling more grounded in your approach.
Have a burning desire to continue working together following this call? Awesome! Simply apply this payment to the coaching package of your choice and let's do this!
A lot can happen in 90 days
One of the best ways to reach the next generation of women to empower them to put themselves first, speak their truth and ask for what they need. Before they become mothers and fall victim to the myth that we can "do it all".
This isn't therapy, so you get full access to me outside of our biweekly meetings to gain support and clarity in the moments you really need it.
What can you accomplish with your own life coach by your side for the next twelve weeks? For starters, let's help you love your most authentic self and start owning it, girl!
Your three month coaching experience that invites you to put yourself first and finally be taken care of. This is your invitation to learn your true value, beauty and worthiness as a woman and a mother. Spend twelve weeks with me right by your side, sharing everything I know to strengthen your relationship with your daughter and with yourself.
Let's connect and co-create your journey to mothering on full, with support, self-love and a confident knowing of your wants and your daughter's needs.
This package is right for you if your mother-daughter relationship brings up hurt, disappointment and pain that you have been unable to work through together. Often when mothers and daughters find me they've had long periods of silence between them in order to avoid conflict, have been working with a therapist and just not receiving the benefit they're after. They're ready for something more and unique to their needs. This package supports the mother-daughter pair, no matter age, location or history. Twelve weeks of biweekly meetings, unlimited messaging access in between sessions and lifework to compliment your in session work.
Together we will explore the themes and issues that are causing pain and make connections between previous generations and what's happening now. I will teach you how to embrace your entitlement to be seen, heard and have your emotional needs met. Bring your hurt, frustration and hope and I will provide you with a safe space to make the lasting change you desire.
"IT'S BEEN AN AMAZING HELP TO US"
“I’ve been able to analyze a lot of her behaviors with your help. Connecting with her and responding rather than my old reacting has really, really helped. Thank you genuinely for all your support. It’s been an amazing help to us.”
"I HAVE SELF-CONFIDENCE NOW"
"I have self-confidence now because of you."
- SZ, 17 yr old client
"A CLOSE AND DEAR FRIEND"
"I qualify you as a close and dear friend, even though we only get to talk once a week for one hour. You're just an awesome person."
- JD, 14 yr old client
"I'VE LEARNED SO MUCH"
"Thank you so much Hilary, it's been a really lovely support and I have learnt so much from you. You have a wealth of valuable knowledge and a warmth with which you connect with your moms. It has been a very enriching experience and given me mothering confidence!"