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Imagine knowing exactly what to say to your daughter during one her emotional meltdowns (and getting her back to an even keel FAST).

Or answering the late night call from your college girl who's freaking out and having her feel heard and ready to tackle the next day by doing LESS than you're doing now.
 

That’s exactly what I want for you, Mama.

Mothering a girl can be emotionally exhausting...

She tells you that you just don't get her.

She turns to her friends more than to you.

You doubt your ability to say the right thing in tough situations.

You're not sure you're the best model for speaking up for yourself.

You question why you are her punching bag of choice.

But you are turning this mother-daughter thing on it's head and...

Finally having more fun and less stress with your daughter.

Ensuring she feels safe coming to you first when something is up in her life.

Harnessing your confidence to set healthy boundaries while giving her space to grow.
Raising an empowered young woman who knows her worth and speaks her truth.

Creating a lifelong relationship built on love and respect.

 

Yes, YOU!

Here you are learning how to mother this stage of her life confidently with your team of support in place for the next 9 months.

Did I mention confidence? We've got enough to go around and then some. 

It's your turn, Mama.

Book your complimentary call with me and

walk away with a plan.

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In our Mother's Power Circle you will learn how to:

  •  Understand your daughter's needs so that she feels heard, understood and loved by you everyday.​

  • Feel calm and connected to your daughter because your close relationship starts with you, Mama.

  • Learn exactly how to respond by knowing your values and listening to your gut 

  • Step into your confident mothering role to move past resistance and sets boundaries with confidence.

  • Show up on full by nurturing yourself and filling your cup first.

  • Learn about the unique needs of every stage of our lives and how to protect your relationship along the way

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Hey Mama,

I'm Hilary

Unofficial details:


🔸 I have a curious and kind 6 yo daughter and silly and sweet 4 yo boy
🔸Couldn't live without my coffee and chocolate
🔸I'm the middle of three sisters and surrounded by mother-daughter relationships my entire life 
🔸 My superpower is knowing which paint color to choose, where to place the sofa and how to create a beautiful tablescape (that counts, right?)
🔸 I will not apologize for loving Netflix. And reality TV. And Hallmark Christmas movies. Give me the feel good stuff and I'm all. over. it.

Official info about me:

🔸 Master's Degree in Counseling
🔸Certified Mother-Daughter Coach
🔸Certified Teen Wisdom Coach
🔸 Family & Child Therapist for thirteen years with a focus on adolescent girls 
🔸 My very first Power Circle was in 2010
🔸 Coached and counseled 100's of mothers and daughters across the globe since my baby girl years as a therapist. (I was a practicing therapist at 26 years old!). So yup, I've been at it for well over a decade

What's included:

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 BIWEEKLY GROUP ZOOM COACHING CALLS
(90 MINUTES)

Our high vibe calls will leave you feeling inspired, motivated and confident to take ACTION in your life. This is the time to get your questions answered and hang out with your new Mama friends. Can't join us live everytime? Calls are recorded so submit your question before the call to get those answers!

The Mothering Girls Course
(a $600 value)

A six module course that walks you through development, bonding, listening, boundaries and building your own emotional container. Each module teaches you through workbooks, videos, audio, etc. and gives you breakthrough after breakthrough!! 

Following the Mothering Path 
ensures you're moving step by step to the confident, empowered and action taking Mama that you are!

✨ Private Voxer Group Chat
As a circle we stay connected the entire 9 months through the group chat app Voxer to gain support exactly when you need it. Have a win? Share it! Feeling stuck? Tag me and I'm there to support you! I'm in the group daily M-F to offer insight + support for you.

✨ MONTHLY MOTHERING NUGGETS
This is a video I’ll share every month, for you to watch or listen to at any time. You’ll have the chance to submit your q’s in advance. A one page worksheet will accompany it to give you conversation starters and a mission to accomplish, that you didn't even know you needed.

Here's the deal:
I'm taking up to 20 women for...

Bimonthly group sessions 90 minutes of coaching exactly where you need it, answering your questions and guiding you exactly where you need it.
Your circle of support right by your side for the entire school year while you implement what I teach you.
Your Mothering Lifeline Connect with fellow Mamas of girls who get exactly what you're feeling and are part of the team helping you show up as your best self.

PLUS me helping you wherever you need help.

What past clients are saying...

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Imagine what it would feel like to...

  • Be your daughter’s #1 confidante — you know, the one who flies into your room to talk about the cute guy in school who passed her a note

  • Hear your daughter say “I can tell my Mom anything” — and really mean it

  • Dive head-first into the loving, supportive mother-daughter relationship you’ve always wished for

  • Tell me, “OMG I enjoy my relationship with my daughter now!".

  • Have this be the year people tell you, “Your daughter is so wonderful!" and for you to agree. Like realllly agree.

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Who is the circle for?

Mamas of all kinds - stepmamas, grandmamas, single mamas, foster mamas, mama mamas of girls and young women. If you're raising a girl or you have a young adult still living at home and you'd like to protect or build your relationship for the rest of your lives, this is for you! 

"I've got so much going on, I'm not sure it's the right time for me."

Only you know your schedule and how much more you can take on but I will say this...Our circle is meant to be supportive, a warm and accepting group of women to turn to when life is getting overwhelming. And if I've done my job right you will OWN the importance of investing in yourself. Tell me this Mama, how many activities are you kids enrolled in this fall? Now tell me what you have put into place for yourself.

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My clients have taken action in their own lives by enrolling in college classes, booking solo retreats, scheduling regular girls night out, and starting book clubs. When is it the right time to make yourself a priority?

Will this help me?

We tend to think our situations are so unique and complicated but the truth is we all have a something in common. Maybe we all haven't been a single parent, lost a parent, moved across the world or raised children with special needs, but the common thread is that we're all mothering girls and wanting to do the best we can. We each bring our lived experience, the openness to learn and support others with the knowledge of what's worked for us. Some mothers will join us deep in crisis, some are joining in order to protect their bond, while others are joining us for a second or third round and have the energy to support others. We become a cohesive group of beautiful mothers learning and growing together. 

So yes, this will help you.

is this for you?

What I know about having a community of mothers...

Having a mothering community is one of the most important supports you will gift yourself while raising children. This support acts as the team that stands behind you as you make your mothering decisions. 

 

I’ve leaned on my own mothering community since my daughter was an infant. Mothers who are also getting up each morning sometimes feeling motivated and energized to fill their mothering role and other days feel exhausted, overwhelmed or worried. This has been the single best support to me as a mother and a woman, being lifted up, cheered on and empowered by mothers in my circle.

 

Bring all your emotions, struggles and challenges to us and we will wrap our virtual arms around you. Reminding you to fill your tank first, provide words of wisdom or simply a place to feel seen and heard. Mothers are people first, we will make sure you are nurturing your own heart while supporting you in raising your daughter to grow into the woman she was meant to be.